Read Nicole’s story about how her mentor, Rory, helped her identify her five value pillars.
“Over the years, Rory has been a true champion of my career; his mentorship has provided me with views far beyond the scope of what I had possibly ever envisioned for myself. During a career transition, Rory suggested that I dig deep and take a good honest look at myself to explore: What makes Nicole “attractive” to an employer? Attractive in the sense of what is my brand, who would seek to hire me, what makes me irresistible, what skills do I offer? What are the characteristics and credentials that make me appealing, and what do I bring to the table?
At first thought, these questions seemed simple in terms of the mechanics of building and marketing one’s career; however, defining these through such terms and with Rory’s added guidance, I was able to gain clarity and create my value proposition in a meaningful way.
I was then given an “assignment” by Rory, that I found particularly useful. He asked me to define my five value pillars. This entailed writing down a list of ten things that stir my soul – ten examples where I was absolutely crushing it – not necessarily in a career, but in all areas of my life, even dating way back to high school; those things that I am exceptionally proud of. The assignment required that I have several of my closest friends interview me to discuss my top ten list, and have them ask me why each was impactful; through these discussions they could write down and play back the words that I used most frequently. After these discussions, I was then to embrace the five words that absolutely define my five value pillars; Rory explained those would then be an anchor to my career objectives.
The assignment was straightforward, yet greatly helped me learn a lot about myself: my friends unanimously pointed out the words I used most frequently:
1. Leadership
2. Impact
3. Presence
4. Empowerment
5. Inspiration
Through this task and his mentorship, Rory helped give me a compass that has been instrumental in both defining and refining my career objectives. I am thankful that he continues to give me the motivation I need towards achieving my greatest potential.”
– Nicole, Membership, Development Chair for Women in Sports and Events, New York City Metro Chapter